We know thatJoan Vassosis supposed to be the star of the show onThe Golden Bachelorette, but someone else is stealing her thunder! Right from the first episode,Charles Linghas been the shining light with his positivity, loveable sense of humor, and profound feelings for his late wife. He melted my heart when he said, “I think she likes me,” after meeting Vassos for the first time. Ling was also the man of the match during the kickball episode. His healthy competitive spirit and adorable kick helped the blue team emerge as winners.

Vassos and Ling’s connection is a breath of fresh air compared to the more dramatic or boisterous personalities vying for the former’s heart. Ling has been a gentleman through and through with his kind demeanor, zest for life, vulnerability, and resilience to make an effort to move on from his wife’s death. He’s also a fan ofBritney Spearsand the NBA Finals — talk about being the dopest dad on the block! Ling has captured the hearts of fans all over — me included — making him the best contestant this season. Regardless of whether he emerges as a winner, you’ll agree thatwe must protect him at all costs!

Gerry Turner giving Joan Vassos a rose on The Golden Bachelor.

Charles Ling Is a Wholesome Gentleman

There’s a reason why the 66-year-old girl dad and retired financial analyst Charles Ling is the season’s highlight. While I love everything about Ling, what I respected most while watching him onThe Golden Bachelorettewashis willingness to be vulnerable and openly express how he’s still in mourning. It’s challenging to come across a one-woman man like Ling in this day and age, so naturally, when he was seated alone on the bleachers during the prom episode, missing his late wife, I couldn’t help but feel protective of this adorable man! In an exclusive interview withBachelor Nation, Ling shared that his daughter encouraged him to go on the show and give love a second shot. Ling shared on the series that his daughter encouraged him to go on the show and give love a second shot.

In aninterview with Bachelor Nation, he’d also remarked on the qualities he admired in Vassos, revealing how their similarities in age and her ease of communication were the force that drew him to her. Ling also revealed howVassos is a good listener and how her being located close to him is an added plus.See what I mean? Ling doesn’t overcomplicate his answers and values the simple things in life while confessing the traits that attract him to Vassos. Another moment when Ling won infinite hearts was during the October 2 episode when he had a heartfelt tête-à-tête with ER doctorGuy Gansertabout the lingering questions that he’s had after his wife’s death — the conversation helped Ling move forward and was a tearjerker to watch.

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‘The Golden Bachelorette’ Shouldn’t Have Tainted the Season With Gerry Turner

Gerry’s surprise overshadowed Joan’s shine.

Though a Fan Favorite, He May Not Last Long on the Show

While Charles Ling has been a perpetual fan-favorite, I don’t think he’ll make it too far onThe Golden Bachelorette. It’s wholesome to see him address his emotions surrounding his wife’s death, but it’s all too evident that he’s still knee-deep in mourning. Though Ling and Vassos share a deep and authentic connection, bonding about their late spouses and having wholesome conversations,they lack a certainamount of romantic chemistryand are probably better suited as friends. I’d hate to see him leave, but I don’t think he’s quite ready to pursue a serious relationship. And although this may be a controversial opinion, I also don’t think Ling is suited to be the nextGolden Bachelor. He is exceptionally wholesome and has only loved one woman his whole life, so courting multiple women and trying to be objective while forming connections with them could be an overwhelming experience for Ling.

Jesse Palmer Is a Member of the Charles Ling Fan Club

Regardless of whether our resident favorite emerges the winner of the season or gets chosen to be the next Golden Bachelor, we can all find solace in the fact that hostJesse Palmer, too, is a loyal member of the Charles Ling fan club.The dating show host revealedthat Ling holds a special place in his heart.Palmer remarked that Ling was a national treasureand even mentioned a throwback to the time when the latter comically asked the football analyst to re-explain instructions during the first date card drop-off. Palmer further expressed that Ling is a sincere gentleman, so it’s no surprise that America has fallen for Ling, and I couldn’t agree more!

New episodes ofThe Golden Bacheloretteair every Wednesday at 8 p.m. ET/PT on ABC in the U.S. The episode is available to stream the following day on Hulu along with previous seasons of the show.

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